I can’t deny it, there was once a time when I enjoyed watching people run around abandoned prisons with GoPro’s strapped to their heads and the camera capturing it all in night vision. Shows like Ghost Hunters and Ghost Adventures were nighttime and Halloween staples for me and my sister growing up. Creepy noises accompanied by shrieks of terror set the mood perfectly. I was recently watching an episode this past weekend and I found myself feeling annoyed. This type of show that once invoked fear and excitement in me only made me try to disprove every bit of “evidence” they presented the viewer, and cringe a lot too.
I am a perpetual skeptic. Sometimes it can get on the nerves of my loved ones, but I like who I am. I like that I don’t take everything at face value. From the time I was a young child in religion class or being taught day-to-day life by my parents, I can remember questioning things. Being an individual is an important part of my identity. I am a big proponent of not following a crowd. I don’t mean you have to stand out, I mean ask yourself why you do anything. “Am I trying to fit in and be a part of something or do I genuinely like what I’m doing? Am I thinking for myself?” Being that type of person, it can be frustrating when people are adamant about something that cannot be backed with scientific facts.
I understand the comfort and necessity of faith whether with religion or anything else. Believing in something giving you purpose makes life feel meaningful. This is the reason why I am not an Atheist. There is no proof of a higher being, but there is no way to disprove in either. My motto is to believe in the possibility of anything and don’t be afraid to have your mind changed.
With most of these shows about ghost hunting, there is little attempt at explaining what may be causing creepy noises or cold spots. I often hear people say “there’s nothing that could possibly cause this, it’s evidence of paranormal activity.” This article from Newsweek talks about “paranormal investigators” who employ scientific methods when investigating haunting cases. Often, there are legitimate reasons, other than ghosts, for creepy things occurring in your home.
I guess this post is more about having facts or evidence to back up any arguments and beliefs you may have. In general, it feels like many people stick to beliefs they were taught because that is what was always told to them to be true. If you are one of those people, all I ask is for is to be open to other ideas and ways of thinking. More conversations and less disagreements sound more fun to me.
Entertainment Over Everything
While I can’t help but laugh at shows that push “real” ghost-hunting as the premise, I understand their purpose and can enjoy it as a novelty. I just wish they all went for a scientific approach. Paranormal shows and reality television in general feel stale at this point but they have solidified their place I don’t see them going away ever. I hope that someone out there is willing to be themselves and go against the grain to create something original and entertaining.
Don’t be afraid to express your thoughts, more people agree with you than you think.